But I think it’s particular to hk.. Not all older men may be like that. Also, sometimes “needing” the blue pill to get it up is mental. Im 41, hes 64 and he used to need the pill in previous relationships. Our open communication and our acceptance of one another, has increase his libido, he no longer needs the pill to perform.

But I still know how to treat a man…with respect, understanding, and acceptance. Dealing with men in their 50’s to try for something meaningful has been a big disappointment for me at 52. There are still good women left, but I suppose they are as rare as the good men these days. Brig you might try dating a few men who are just a bit younger since you say you look younger.

Kathy, I am a guy who has an older lady friend and we are very open with each other. She is still quite beautiful at 70 and is newly divorced. She told me that her husband has ED problems and has for years.

Don’t assume that marriage and kids are off the table.

On the other hand, the age difference was always and issue between you so it shouldn’t have come as a surprise when she decided to break up with you. Thank you very much for your insight. You are right about her as far as her concern about how others perceive her. On one of our first outings, she asked me about what others were thinking about us at a restaurant. I assured her that everyone was in their own little world and we were no concern to them. The second time that she asked me the same question, I asked her if she had spied anyone looking at us, which she had not.

Here’s one man’s candid explanation of the reasons men like dating younger women instead of women their own age.

But 56% of women clearly have figured out how to get the most out of a relationship with an older guy, so take the following advice to heart to make this relationship successful. If, when you start dating an older guy, you immediately get the sense that he’s controlling, walk away. You need a man who will let you be you and won’t try to change you. The man who’s been there, done that already, in terms of relationships, means that you’ll want to nurture and develop your ability to embrace the other already-important people in his life. And also, be open to the man who hasn’t yet been married. Both scenarios require flexibility and adaptability — feminine and queenly qualities, which will enable you to attract and keep a big, strong, masculine man.

Mostly the male partner cheated but in some cases it was the woman. I feel like when we reach 50, it https://thedatingpros.com/ is a time for change kind of a shake up time. Time to get rid of friends who do no help us in life.

This might be why many men go for women younger than them – physical attraction? I really hope situations turn around for both of us. Peter-san, unfortunately, a woman who has put half her life behind her is statistically 39 years old in the United States. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled in your life.

Don’t think it would usually lead to a healthy and satisfying relationship. I think once you get beyond a certain age difference it becomes more difficult to make a relationship work. Neither is there any reason to treat others in that ‘boat’ with unkindness when we find they are not for us, lets just move on without blame or rancor. Went on one of these so-called “dating sites” allegedly catering to folks in my age range. I thought I had a good profile, nevertheless little interest.

A few have married younger men as well with the same result, those men seem to try more to make a good relationship. I haven’t had much luck with guys my age, in their 50s, but I never had much luck with them in my 20s, 30s, 40s. This is definitely a generational thing…and my generation just did not produce great relational partners. We are the transitional generation.

I prefer someone around my age because I will have more in common with that man and hopefully they will have the same level of maturity. I agree, I tried my luck at 2 dating sites for about six months, and not even a wink or a smile. Women do seem to make more of the mans looks rather than anything else.